Fostering Flourishing
A theory of well-being and "the good life"
Rough Draft #9 (see previous)
Thesis:
The most important priority for "the good life" is to
nurture and love yourself and your relationships.
Outline:
- The Good Life
- The Paramount Priority
- The Fundamental Factors
- Cultivating
- Nurturing
- Loving
- Conclusion
- Context
The Good Life
Flourishing
Well-being | Thriving | The Good Life |
---|
↓
To be well | To live well |
Quality of your life | Quality of your living |
How (good) your life is | How (well) you live it |
Ideal life | Ideal living |
Flourishing is living a good life. To flourish is to be well and to
live well.
It is synonymous with well-being, thriving, and "the good
life".
Flourishing is about the quality of your life and how you live it.
The Paramount Priority
Flourishing is the most
Need | Want | Desire | Drive |
Motive | Value | Goal | Priority |
Flourishing is the most universal, transcendent, important,
intrinsic, significant, salient, foundational, and fundamental need,
want, desire, drive, motive, value, goal, and priority of life.
All conscious beings strive for a good life. It is the unifying
nature of all living things to seek to foster flourishing and
improve the quality of life.
The Fundamental Factors
The most
of flourishing are:
↓
Relationships | Mind | Body |
---|---|---|
Social | Mental | Physical |
The social, mental, and physical systems of life are the most
important, significant, essential, and fundamental factors,
dimensions, elements, and determinants of flourishing, well-being,
and "the good life".
To flourish is to thrive socially, mentally, and physically.
The quality of your life and conscious experience is most determined
by the quality of your relationships, mind, and body.
Your relationships, mind, and body have the greatest effect and
impact on the quality of your life.
Cultivating
The best way to
Live a good life & Live well
and
Foster flourishing & Cultivate wellbeing
is to
Nurture & Improve
Yourself & Your relationships
The best way to foster flourishing, cultivate well-being, and live a
good life is to nurture and improve your relationships and yourself.
The best way to improve the quality of your life is to nurture
yourself and your relationships.
Fostering flourishing is the proactive prioritization and
intentional practice of nurturing and improving yourself and your
relationships.
Nurturing
The best way to
Nurture & Improve
Your relationships & Yourself
is to
Love others & Love yourself
The best way to nurture yourself and your relationships is to love
others and yourself.
The best way to foster flourishing is to create and cultivate
moments and experiences of love.
The best way to live is to love; to live better is to love better;
to live well is to love well.
Loving
The best way to Love is to be
Present | Aware | Attentive |
Understanding | Accepting | Trusting |
Grateful | Respectful | Open |
Compassionate | Kind | Caring |
Equanimous | Calm | Peaceful |
Love is the synthesis of:
- Presence, awareness, attention, concentration, engagement
- Understanding, openness, curiosity, acceptance, trust
- Gratitude, appreciation, admiration, recognition, respect, thankfulness
- Compassion, care, kindness, benevolence, altruism, empathy
- Equanimity, tranquility, calmness, peace, harmony, serenity
You can nurture yourself and your relationships by prioritizing and practicing these skills.
The best way to love is to be present, aware, attentive, engaged, connected, open, curious, understanding, accepting, trusting, grateful, appreciative, respectful, thankful, vulnerable, communicative, compassionate, caring, kind, benevolent, altruistic, empathetic, calm, peaceful, serene, and equanimous.
Conclusion
The good life is a life of love, presence, awareness, attention, engagement, connection, openness, curiosity, understanding, acceptance, trust, gratitude, appreciation, admiration, recognition, respect, thankfulness, vulnerability, communication, compassion, care, kindness, benevolence, altruism, empathy, calmness, peace, harmony, serenity, and equanimity.
Context
- About the theory (Coming soon…)
- About the project
- About the author